Achieve Your Goals and Dreams: A Guide You Can DO Right Now.

Hey there, Bro.

I need to drop some truth bombs and not hold back. So grab a seat, and let's have a heart-to-heart conversation.

In this crazy world, we're bombarded 24/7 with information. We're scrolling through our feeds, wondering if our lives even matter compared to the 'highlight reels' we see on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook.

But here's the deal, bro – it's time to wake up.

Get your butt out of bed and put down that damn phone.

If you're constantly questioning your life and whether you're measuring up to the guy next door, let me tell you, you're not alone.

We all have this messed-up mindset, belief system, or whatever you want. Sadly, many of us are getting seriously messed up by it.

Don't believe me? Take a look at YouTube. There are tons of self-help gurus out there, and some of them are genuinely helpful.

But finding the real gems amidst all the crap? That's like searching for a needle in a haystack.

Still skeptical? Open Twitter, Quora, LinkedIn, or even Reddit. Everyone and their grandma are trying to be the next big thing, and it's overwhelming as hell. The problem with today's flood of information is that it's either gold or pure garbage, with little in between.

People like us, who want to figure life out, often end up lost in the jungle. We need to remember why we started this journey in the first place.

We chase success like a dog chasing its tail, but let me burst your bubble – no amount of daydreaming can get you there if you don't even know who the heck you are.

So, let's get real.

The Noise of the Crowd

Look around, bro. People on the internet have lives you either envy or want to learn from. Take Twitter, for example. If you've got fewer followers than a hermit, listen up: Stop overcomplicating everything.

We create imaginary dramas in our heads, blowing things out of proportion. We compare ourselves to others relentlessly, craving that sense of belonging.

But hold up. Stop now if you're stuck in that loop of comparing your life. Seriously, ask yourself, "Why?"

"Why do I need to achieve all this stuff to be great? Will being like them actually make me happier?" It's nuts how we feel more entitled than ever in an age of endless connectivity.

The more freedom we have to express ourselves, the more we can't stand anyone who disagrees. The more we're exposed to different opinions, the more we hate that those opinions exist.

And you know what's even crazier? The easier our lives get, the more we expect them to be perfect.

Here's the Wake-Up Call:

• Pick at least two days or a week and unplug from social media, work, and distractions. Reconnect with reality - spend time with family, walk, or do anything that prevents you from social media.

• In the morning, grab a piece of paper and write down where your life is at. Be brutally honest.

• Write down your 'whys' – why you're where you are. Get detailed, get creative. Put it somewhere safe and ignore it for the day.

• At the end of the day/week, document your thoughts and your experiences. What did you learn? What problems need solving?

• Make this a monthly ritual.

I'm not done yet, bro. I'll be dropping more wisdom in the weeks to come. We're diving deeper into self-discovery, personal growth, and finding accurate fulfillment.

Remember, your life's a limited edition, and your attention is gold. Don't let other people's BS cloud your judgment.

Anxiety? It's just worrying about stuff that hasn't happened yet. Focus on the problems staring you in the face right now.

Look hard in the mirror if you're feeling lost like I've been.

Ask yourself where you're headed and what you truly want.

Still struggling? Try this:

• Write down every problem you're facing in excruciating detail.

• Stick it on your wall and leave it.

• While you're at it, meditate for 3 minutes each morning and before bed.

• Embrace those cold showers, 1-5 minutes in the AM and PM.

• After a day or two of this (seriously, do it), revisit your "Problem List." Now, create a "Solution List."

Your refreshed mind and body will help you develop many solutions to your problems.

For example:

Problem: Parents won't let me hit the gym.

Solution: Convince them with facts - gym boosts growth, doesn't hinder it.

Remember, life's short and all about finding your path, not following someone else's.

Don't be "Monkey see, Monkey do." It's terrible for you, bro. Really Bad.

I'm going to keep these newsletters coming, so stay tuned.

Aight, Talk to you soon,

—Joshua Limas